do not interact criteria
I keep seeing so many awful "basic DNI" carrds with awful takes so I made my own. This is the one; The Definitive Edition of DNI carrds, at least for normal people (if you can call people who use DNIs normal in the first place!)
criteria i - the basics
Some of this stuff will seem rather obvious, but y'know, better safe than sorry, yeah?
Racist, colorist, or bigoted in any form, such as, but not limited to:
Xenophobic
Sinophobic
Islamophobic
Antisemitic
Orientalist
Anti-Ukraine or pro-Russia
Anti-Palestine, pro-Israel or a Zionist
Anti-racial equality movements such as Black Lives Matter (BLM) and Stop Asian Hate
Pro All Lives Matter (ALM) and subdivisions/related ideologies, such as Blue Lives Matter and Thin Blue LineAnti-LGBTQIA+ in any form, such as, but not limited to:
Homophobic
Transphobic
Non-binary skeptic
Truscum or transmed, or believe you need gender dysphoria to identify as trans*
Believe in the "gendered brain"...Or hold political beliefs associated with these things, such as being a right-winger, Republican, pro-Trump, or a (neo-)Nazi.
criteria ii - extended
This is where we get into the esoteric stuff.
Anti-LGBTQIA+ in any form, such as:
Anti-xenogenders
Anti-neopronouns, nounself, or emojiself pronouns
Anti any good-faith identities, such as m-spec gays and lesbians, lesboys and turigirls, chronosians, or are anti-using the Split Attraction Model (SAM) for identities outside of a-spec
Identify as an exclusionist, or are anti-radical inclusionism; Anti-radqueers usually get to stay, but may be a case by case basis, as are pro-radqueersAbleist in any form, such as:
Demonizing those with mental illness or personality disorders, such as Antisocial Personality disorder, Narcissistic personality disorder, Schizo-spec disorders, and more, or, more broadly, cluster A, B, and C personality disordersAnti-endogenic, created, tulpas/thoughtforms, spontaneous, etc. or non-traumagenic and disordered systems and plurals,
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this is too long!
Skipped to the end and need this list summarized? Lists not doing it for you? Here's the DNI criteria in two different forms, one in essay format and one with no filler/explanation text.
do not interact criteria
essay format
TBA... Check back later!
do not interact criteria
no filler
Racist, colorist, bigoted:
Xenophobic, Sinophobic, Islamophobic, Antisemitic, Orientalist, Anti-Ukraine, pro-Russia, Anti-Palestine, pro-Israel, Zionist, Anti-Black Lives Matter (anti-BLM), anti-Stop Asian Hate, Pro-All Lives Matter (pro-ALM), pro-Blue Lives Matter, pro-Thin Blue LinePolitically aligned:
Right-winger, Republican, pro-Trump, (neo-)NaziAnti-LGBTQIA+:
Homophobic, Transphobic, Non-binary skeptic, Truscum, Transmed, believe you need gender dysphoria to identify as trans*, pro-"gendered brain", Panphobic, Biphobic, Pro-Gender EssentialismAnti-inclusionism:
Anti-xenogenders, Anti-neopronouns, Anti-nounself and emojiself pronouns, Anti-good faith or anti-contradictory identities, Anti-m-spec gays and lesbians, Anti-turigirls and Lesboys, Anti-He/him lesbians and She/her gays, Anti-Objectum, Anti-Endo, Anti-Tulpa, Anti-Non-Traumagenic systems/plurals, Anti-Radinclus,Ableist:
Demonize mental disorders like BPD, NPD, ASPD and schizo-spec disorders, anti-self diagnosis, demonize paraphiles, Pro-Fakeclaiming, Support AutismSpeaksMiscellaneous:
Pro-contact for harmful paraphilias, Pro-MAP, a singlet participating in syscourse, Participate in or care about Flag Discourse, Anti-recovery, Anti-reality checking, Participate in r/FakeDisorderCringe, r/truscum, EDtwt, SHtwt
disagree?
I understand why some may be apprehensive on accepting some of these in this current social media climate, the most controversial being, at least from my point of view, multisexual (m-spec) gays and lesbians, endogenic, created, and non-disordered systems and plurals, objectum, and "contradictory" labels like lesboys and turigirls.I'm not going to bother to try and educate you, a random person reading a carrd you won't remember in five minutes after closing the tab, but I will leave you with this:Your cat doesn't care about endogenic systems. The aphid you saw on a tomato plant in your aunt's garden doesn't know what queer discourse is. The rarely seen and photographed Australian trumpet snail (Syrinx aruanus) won't ever know what objectum is.In a world so rife with grief and turmoil, why create artificial problems in spaces where we should support each other? You don't need to understand an identity to understand the person. Love and care for your fellow human. You don't know why someone identifies the way they do, and it will never, EVER be your business, unless that identity hurts themself or another, And no, a lesbian also identifying as a bisexual is not hurting someone. Love and care for each other, and work together to create a loving community, as the cells in your body work together to make you.
Open to re-educating yourself, or simply learning more? Check out the links below.
M-spec sexuality focused:
Multisexuality on the LGBTQIA wiki
"...Some women who engage in same-sex sexual activity may reject not only identifying as lesbians but as bisexual as well," from the Wikipedia article for lesbian
"...A woman who is sexually or romantically attracted to other women," from the Merriam Webster dictionary definition for lesbian, does not say "exclusively"
The Split Attraction Model (SAM) on the LGBTQIA wiki
Varioriented on the LGBTQIA wiki
WebMD's article for abrosexuality, something that may cause someone to have two "contradictory" orientation labels
Mspeclesbians.carrd.co
Bi-lesbian.tumblr.com's #explanation and #history tagsPlural focused:
Morethanone.info
Pluralpedia's wiki article for systems
Pluralpedia's wiki article for plurality
Healthymultiplicity.com
Endogenichaven.tumblr.com's "syscourse-like questions" page
Thepluralassociation.org's resources page
Powertotheplurals.com's articles and resources page (including in other languages, such as Spanish, German, French and more!)
r/Plural's wiki guideObjectum focused:
Objectum on the LGBTQIA wiki
What is Objectum? page on objectum-media.neocities.org (see also: What is Posic?)
Peoplewholoveobjects.wordpress.com's links and resources page
Object Sexuality on Wikipedia
www.objectum-sexuality.org's "What is OS?" page
Viscera Objectica, an objectum comic by Yugo "Yugsly" Limbo, creator of Smile For Me and Be Kind, My Neighbor (snippets can be found on their tumblr, here)"Contradictory" labels, xenogender, and neopronouns focused:
The turigirl and lesboy articles on the LGBTQIA wiki
Good Faith Labels masterpost rentry (unfinished but still good)
Cusper and evenic on the LGBTQIA wiki
Let's Talk About Xenogenders carrd (entire thing is really good but Very Long, if you don't have the attention span just read FAQ and Critiques)
Neopronouns and the Spivak pronouns on Wikipedia
u/Lonely-dude's comics on m-spec lesbians and xenogenders
Understanding Neopronouns by the Human Rights Campaign
transid.org (disclaimer: While the creator of this carrd does not personally agree with every facet of transID identities, they believe it is still good to accept people for what they identify as and be open to learning about others' experiences)
If you even click or tap one of these links, with the goal of re-educating yourself, thank you. Just your willingness to potentially accept others is groundbreaking.
credits
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